4 Habits That Sabotage Your Relationship
Article by Erica Sloan for Well + Good with insights from Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT
With some reflection on a current or past relationship, you might be able to guess a few of the worst things to say or do to a partner—like name-call or criticize them in an argument, or offer up an ultimatum. But many of the bad habits that can break down a relationship over time are far less obvious or intentional in action.
According to couples therapist Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT, co-founder of relationship counseling platform Ours, some of these under-the-radar habits can actually spring from goodintentions, which is all the more reason why they can be so tough to identify in the moment. So, if you suspect you’re doing all the right relationship things but still feel a baseline level of tension bubbling up between you and a partner, one of these bad relationship habits may be to blame. Read on for the most common ones that Earnshaw sees in her practice.